Eloping in New Zealand
Elopement vs Traditional Wedding
The real difference between eloping and a traditional wedding — and why couples choose the intimate path.
Two very different days
A traditional wedding is a wonderful thing — family and friends, speeches, a reception, dancing into the night. It’s also a great deal of planning, and much of the day is spent hosting everyone else.
An elopement is the opposite: small, relaxed, and entirely about the two of you. Just the couple, or with up to four of your closest people. You spend the day on the experience — the setting, the adventure, each other — rather than on catering for a crowd.
The New Zealand elopement
Here, an elopement might mean a helicopter flight to a remote ridge or snow landing, a quiet lakeside ceremony at Tekapo, Wānaka or Lake Pukaki, or an open-air mountain vow with the whole of the Southern Alps around you. It’s a wedding day and an adventure, folded into one.
Which is right for you?
If the thought of a big wedding feels more stressful than joyful — or if you simply want the day to be about the two of you — an elopement may be exactly right. And if you’d still love a few loved ones there, up to four guests can share it with you.
Not sure? Tell me your story and we’ll talk it through.
Frequently asked questions
What is the difference between an elopement and a traditional wedding?
An elopement is a small, relaxed day focused entirely on the two of you — often just the couple, sometimes with up to four guests. A traditional wedding involves more people, more planning, and the familiar run of speeches, reception and dancing. An elopement trades the crowd for intimacy and adventure.
Is an elopement less meaningful than a big wedding?
Not at all — many couples find it more meaningful. Without a crowd to host, all your attention is on each other and the moment. The vows, the setting and the feeling are exactly the same; there's simply nothing between you and the day.
What is the difference between an elopement and a micro wedding?
A micro wedding is a scaled-down traditional wedding — usually twenty to fifty guests, with a reception and hosting to match. An elopement is smaller and freer again — you and up to four guests, six people in total. I specialise exclusively in elopements; it's where the magic I love lives.
With love, from New Zealand
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